Nicole Kidman talks about ex-husband Tom Cruise "We live in peace now"

Nicole Kidman, who is about to celebrate her 50th birthday, is already a mother of four children. In an interview on January 8, she expressed her wish to have another child.

This Hollywood star suffered several setbacks during her pregnancy preparation process and was "heartbroken", but she still hoped that she could successfully get pregnant in 2017, "because the child is the source of happiness in my life."

In an interview with the media, Nicole Kidman once said: "The most important thing in my life is to be a mother. It can subvert everything and make my life better."

Nicole adopted two children while she was with her first husband, Tom Cruise. One is the eldest daughter Isabella, who is already 25 years old, and the other is the son Connor, who is 21 years old. In 2008, after Nicole married singer Case Urban, she conceived naturally "miraculously" and gave birth to her daughter, Sunday Rose. In 2011, Nicole gave birth to her youngest daughter Faith Margaret through her surrogate mother.

But Nicole wants to continue to be a newborn mother. "I still have some expectations and hope that good things will happen in 2017," she said. "Kase and I want to have more babies. My grandmother also gave birth to my mother at the age of 49. If I were pregnant, I would be overjoyed and welcomed the baby with open arms."

Nicole told reporters frankly how difficult it was to prepare for pregnancy in an interview. She said: "I have experienced the sadness of failing to prepare for pregnancy again and again. Just when I started telling myself that I might never be able to get pregnant again, I successfully got pregnant. To be honest, I never thought I would give birth to a baby when I was 41 years old, but I successfully became a mother at that time."

Nicole also said: "I have been trying to get pregnant for so many years. It is a miracle to give birth to Rose at the age of 41. Because my husband and I want to have another child, we gave birth to our second daughter, Faith, by looking for a surrogate mother. Before Faith was born, I felt that the possibility of getting pregnant was getting weaker and weaker."

One of the reasons why Nicole and ex-husband Tom Cruise divorced is that Tom is becoming increasingly addicted to "Science Church". Speaking of the last marriage, Nicole Kidman said she and her ex-husband had "a peaceful breakup." When the reporter mentioned the two children she and her ex-husband adopted together, Nicole said: "They are still part of my life and concern, but they are now adults and have their own lives. I want to pay attention to protecting and respecting their privacy."

"It is indeed becoming more and more difficult for children to reunite with them when they grow up, but their children will always be their own children. If they are mothers for a day, they will be mothers for a lifetime."

Nicole and her husband Albourne's marriage once turned red. In 2006,Four months after the wedding, Alben received treatment for alcoholism and substance abuse.

However, when Nicole Kidman, who is about to celebrate her 50th birthday in June, said that they would never choose to end their marriage. "We won't get divorced." When I met Case, we were deeply connected, and we all had a sense of loneliness between each other." "Loneliness has nothing to do with your celebrity identity - even celebrities, you will still feel lonely. We saw this in each other. I got engaged a month after Case and I met, and it was a leap of trust between us”. Nicole thought that her husband Case had been treated at a rehabilitation center “is a good thing”, which shows his commitment and determination to start a new life.

There is probably no more "winner in life" than Nicole Kidman. She won an Oscar (in 2002, with the movie "The Hours", several Golden Globes, and a British Academy Award, with a deposit of about 100 million pounds in the bank. And Tom Cruise, one of the world's most famous superstars, is also her ex-husband.

However, she often gives people the impression that she is as cold as ice and snow queen. Nicole was shocked when she heard people’s accusations of her “coldness”: “I am not the one I am in the impression. I am often nervous when walking the red carpet. People may mistakenly think that my expression is very cold. I also don’t like to talk in social situations. I was shy when I was a child, but when I grew up, I became shy. Family is the comfort zone of my soul. What I happiest is to go home and lie on the big bed with Case, and the children stopped after having fun and chatted next to me. Such days make me more satisfied than a party in Hollywood.”

Despite her calm attitude towards the glitz-like world of Hollywood, she is still one of the best actresses in the world. A few days ago, Nicole was nominated for Best Supporting Actress for her thrilling performance in the movie "Lion". “I told my daughter when the nomination list was announced on Sunday,” Nicole said, “She glanced at me and said with a smile, ‘Where is my American doll going to?”

Nicole has made various types of movies: including high-box blockbusters—including Batman Forever, The Peacemaker, The Stepford Wives, as well as high-reputation and low-box movies, such as Dogville, Birthday Girl, and Strangerland.

What made Nicole Kidman famous was her 1989 horror film Dead Calm. Sam Neil was filming a rival scene with her at the time. The drama has a huge impact, and after that she filmed it with Tom Cruise"Days Of Thunder" was the king of box office in 1990. After filming the film, the two quickly fell in love. On Christmas Day, Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise got married at the American ski resort, Telluride, Coronado.

But the two have never lived a happy Hollywood life ever since. Their ten-year marriage ended in a collapse. The outside world speculates that the reason for the divorce is that Nicole cannot tolerate her husband Tom Cruise’s increasing indulgence in his belief in scientific religion. After the divorce, Nicole Kidman kept silent about his ex-husband. (She didn't even respond to questions from outside about the reason for her divorce), now she only responded to "We are living together peacefully now, and there is nothing else."

After the breakdown of Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise's marriage, the children that the former couple raised were affected. Now 25-year-old Isabella and 21-year-old Connor both believe in science. It is reported that after Nicole and Tom divorced, the two children lived with Tom. Tom did not allow them to contact their mother Nicole, but Nicole denied this statement.

"They are still part of my life and concern, but they are now adults and have their own lives. I need to pay attention to protecting and respecting their privacy. In my life, becoming a mother is above everything else, it overturns everything and makes my life better. At that time, I had many problems in preparing for pregnancy, so we all chose to adopt it. When the children grew up, it was indeed more and more difficult to reunite with them, but their children will always be their own children. If you are a mother for a day, you will be a mother for a lifetime."

Nicole Kidman's motherhood was the motivation for her participation in "Lion". The movie "The Lion" tells a true story. Indian child Saroo was adopted by an Australian couple after he was lost when he was a child. Twenty years later, he began to search for his biological mother and found her through Google Maps. Nicole Kidman plays the adoptive mother Sue Brierley in the movie, raising Saroo and another Indian child Mantosh, and treating them as their own.

Brierley's realistic prototype prompted Nicole Kidman to participate in the film. "We have a heart and soul," said Nicole Kidman, "is true as a woman and as a mother. She is an outstanding mother. The movie is special to me - it is a love letter to my children, to mothers all over the world. Although Sue had the opportunity to have her own children, she chose to raise two Indian boys. Mother love is infinite, and there are many ways to become a mother. And to be a mother, you have to be prepared to give unconditional love to the children."

Nicole Kidman has four children, but these four children are not all born by her in the traditional sense. Isabella and Connor were raised by her with Cruise, eight-year-old Sandy Rose had a natural child with her current husband Case, and five-year-old Faith was born through surrogacy..

As a mother, Nicole described herself as a kind mother, not too much emphasis on discipline to her daughter, and more on education, while Alben is a strict father. “We are not the traditional family model,” Nicole said. "My daughter said we were in the same group, and we were inseparable from anything we did. After work, I picked up my daughter to and from school when I had time. We attended school concerts, sports meets, and dated together. Friday was the most important thing, because Friday was the beginning of the weekend, and we did stupid things together, such as dancing disco."

In "The Lion", the second Indian boy adopted by Brierley, Mantosh, developed into a bad childhood habit of alcohol and drug use as adults. The Brierleys continued to support Mantosh and expressed their love. I asked Kidman if she resonated with the plot. After all, in 2006, four months after Nicole and her current husband Urban got married, Urban entered a professional institution for alcoholism and substance abuse. Of course, many women usually choose to leave at this time.

"We won't get divorced." When I met Case, we were deeply connected, and we all had a sense of loneliness between each other." "Loneliness has nothing to do with your celebrity identity - even celebrities, you will still feel lonely. We saw this in each other. ”

"Kase and I got engaged a month after we met, and this is also a leap of trust between us." There is something I think he did very well. One of our dates was in a place called Leiper’s Fork in Nashville, a spiritual sacred place with beautiful scenery and retro architecture, and I love it. At that time, I wanted to leave Los Angeles and move to Portland, Oregon, to live a quiet, simple, and natural life.

"He took me to a beautiful, peaceful and peaceful place and told me that this is where he is. I remember staring at him and wishing he proposed to me now. He really proposed, it was really romantic. I don't know why, but I believe he was the only one of me. We got married after six months together, and then he went to treatment for alcohol and substance abuse. I think it's a good thing for him to go to professional treatment, which shows his commitment and determination to start a new life."

Urban admits that Nicole forced him to seek professional help to quit drinking and drug abuse. He was worried about whether he would be separated from his wife when he went to the alcohol quit, but Nicole Kidman said they would be closer. "I am determined to go all the way to dark no matter what choice I make in the future. Before the thing is broken, I need to repair it."

As a teenager, Nicole Kidman learned a lesson. At the age of 16, she participated in the TV series "Five Mile Creek." From then on, her acting career began. But when her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer the next year, she left the crew and took a massage training class to teach herself physical therapy to take care of her mother. "There is a strong force to pushMove me to take care of and protect the people I love,” she said. This is why the Nicole lives away from the hustle and manic crowds in Hollywood, and at home, Nicole Kidman, as movie stars, still holds a secondary position compared to musician Case.

"I love living in Nashville, I love Case, I love walking with this musician. I love him as an artist rather than a businessman."

"We understand each other. Sometimes, he plays music in the corner, and I talk to him, and he can't hear a word, immersed in his own world. My father is a scientist, and he is the same. So I never get angry about it. The same is true for myself, and the spiritual core of our family is the same."

Nicole Kidman's father Anthony died two years ago due to a serious heart disease, and admitted that she has not yet emerged from the grief of her father's death. "I haven't fully recovered, and shock and sadness come without warning. My life is split into two parts: before my father dies and after my father dies."

Now, Nicole Kidman settles in Nashville. Britain is a place of affection for her. She won numerous awards after she played The Blue Room (called "pure theater Viagra by critics) and Photograph 51 (in which she played a pioneer scientist) on the West End Theater stage in London. Nicole Kidman does not rule out the possibility of returning to the stage in the future.

"I love this place in London. But the last time I brought the kids to London, they were getting more and more resistant, so moving to London might have to have a tough negotiation with the kids." Perhaps Nicole promises the kids that they hire a full-time chef in London to shake the kids' moves might work.

In addition, the new film "The Lion" starring Nicole Kidman will be released abroad on January 20.

(Translation: Huang Wenyan)